Sunrise, Sunset

10:15am, (straight south is the right-side border of this photo)

A little late on the 'peak' of the arc, since this photo was at 2:00, and the peak should be at 1:00. Sun is just past south.

And the sun disappears behind the buildings at 3:47pm.

Since the sun is rarely visible, we took these when we could, the week before the solstice. I must say that it was a delightful week of sun and freezing temps. We hardly noticed the limited hours of daylight, since it was wonderful to actually see the sunlight, moon, and even stars!

Jump!



Worrying about our landlord's mattresses, we decided to get a gymnastics mat for Christmas. Combined with one of our favorite songs, it makes a Coe-music video. And you'll see a lot about our kids' relationships with each other as well!

Merry Christmas!

Celebrating Jesus' birth!




Notice the traditional bananas and oranges. And the non-traditional hammers!





Ella received a tea set. And we were surprised that the boys had as much fun with it as she did! Eric joined them for a tea party. (Ella poured 'coffee' for him.

On Christmas Eve, we celebrated with Chris and Trisha, Nate and Nick Huddleston. It was a wonderful, low-key dinner. As always, I'm amazed at my husband, who was in charge of the ham and the broccoli-chesse casserole (for which he made homemade cream of chicken soup!)

We enjoyed our last night of Advent, with all the candles lit. And sang Christmas carols, with the requests being, "Little Drummer Boy," "Angels We Have Heard on High," and "something fun..." A tradition we started last year is reading through the What God Wants for Christmas book with its little nativity scene. (on the spot quiz: Which angel in the Bible has one broken wing?)

Afterward, Danya said, "I think I'm happier than I've ever been in my whole life." The source? We think it was 10 straight games of Monopoly Deal with Nate. Danya said that Christmas Eve was the worst night of the year. "I just can't make myself go to sleep!"


A few days ago, we decorated cookies. This year we haven't had as much time to make things in advance, but managed to make one batch of cookies! (Despite the mix-up of baking soda and powder, it all tasted good.) We also made sugar-snow candy, like in Little House in the Big Woods except ours was made with sugar-water instead of maple and molasses! Only one burn later, and several candy-coated spoons, we had some sniglets of hard candy that got stuck in everyone's teeth!



Hopefully, more decorating to come this week. We get to celebrate for two weeks, since Russians' main holiday is new year's eve, and the Orthodox calendar places Christmas on Jan 7th. So there's a chance to finish up the gifts which didn't get done!

Мороз и Сольнце, день чудесный!

We've had two days of clear skies! To you Coloradans, it may not seem so unusual. But none of us can really remember the last time we saw the sun, let alone had a whole sunny day. A few days this past week, I saw sunlit clouds--evidence of a break somewhere in the grey covering us. And I was amazed at the beauty of the yellow, bright light which proved the continued existence of the sun.

Despite the lack of daylight hours, and the lack of sunshine even during those short hours, we are doing okay. The closer we get to the solstice, the more of an adventure it feels. It's really helpful to know that it will get better and better from now. (My attitude has improved since October, when my thought was, "Four more months until it's even this sunny?")

Eric and I sometimes speculate, would we trade the cloudy skies ande 10 degrees farther north for the much colder temps of Irkutsk? Yesterday, with the thermometer at -10C and sunshine, we decided that we much prefer the weather of Irkutsk. (In our opinion, -10 feels like -20 with the 90% humidity! And most of the winter, Irkutsk is around -20C.) Of course, Irkutsk is at -35 right now, I think! It's funny that we even talk about what we would prefer. If we chose our calling by the weather, we probably would never even think about Siberia!

Texan Blood

Not ag-ay-yan!

They-yer my oat-me-yeel.

He-yer my underwe-yer!

Is it genetic? The subtle influence of Papa Coe ? Or Nick, or six-year-old teammate who himself hasn't been in Texas a whole year of his life? Nobody knows, but Ella has a definite Texan accent when saying some words. It's very cute, especially the "Not ag-ay-yan!" when said with great drama about ordinary things like eating breakfast.

(translation:
Not again!
There's my oatmeal.
Here's my underwear.)

Tima's Terms

I unholded the toy and it fell.

[dropped]



Looking out the window on a snowy day, "Look, it's a breeze!"

[blizzard]



I remember that book! Tomorrow, when we were in Colorado, we read that!

[yesterday]



And then Obi-wan said, "I wanted to science that."
And Annikan stuck out his boot and said, "Science my boot!"
[study] This one was a mystery to me until Danya retold the same movie quote.



Of course, we also have the typical terms like "I catched; she swimmed; they go-ed." I've realized lately that I need to be correcting him more, since he doesn't seem to be naturally figuring them out. And he talks a lot.



Tima can spend the whole morning telling me stories. In the last few weeks, he's been pretending to be puppies. Each day, he chooses a new name and new characteristics for the new dog. We play the 'package game' to receive it. (The puppies are sent by relatives in the States, remarkably alive after being shipped for weeks.) And then Tima constantly corrects me, whenever I say his name:

"You mean Speedy?"

"Yes, Speedy, go get your clothes on."

Then there is a constant commentary about how each dog compares to the others. For example, how big he was when he was born, how tall he is now, how fast he can run, how high he can jump. And so on, to infinity, apparently! I've decided not to worry about all the 'imaginative' games in his homeschool curriculum.He plays that all day!

Солнце

13 December 2009

Sunrise 09:53
Sunset 15:52
Total Sunlight 05:59

Sunrise, Sunset

Today
Sunrise 09:31
Sunset 16:03
Total hours of sun 6:32

In one week
09:44
15:56
total 6:12
00:20 shorter than this week

In two weeks
09:54
15:53
total 5:59
00:33 shorter than this week

and then we're almost done with the getting darker part.

BTW, in six months, we'll have 11:28 more hours of sunlight than now!
http://www.gaisma.com/en/location/saint-petersburg.html

Baby Horse

"Mama horse?"
"Yes, baby horse."
"I a baby horse. You my Mama Horse. I suppo'd be under your 'kin [chin]
'Neeeeigh' [nuzzle, nuzzle]"

[I must say that my nuzzling baby horse is one of the most pleasant things I've experienced in motherhood. She loves to snuggle, rub cheeks and noses, and cling tightly to me. I just soak it in, hoping that this affection keeps coming for many more years!]

Of course, every other minute, she doesn't want to be a baby horse, rather:

"You a Mama Horse, I a baby leopa'd."

And she has a very exact definition of words, apparently without understanding catagories. Many things I say, she 'corrects':

"I not a big gi'l. I a little gi'l."

"Them not pants, them tights."

"Them not pants, them 'geens [jeans]

"Not my arm, my elbow."

"Not my finger, my 'tumb."

"Not a video, a D V D."

Some of her favorite books in the last few months:
A Pocket for Corduroy,
Ten Little Ladybugs,
Old Hat, New Hat,
Cooking with The Cat [in the Hat]
Ten Apples up on Top
Bears on Wheels

She is delighting all of us by reading books to us. Even Tima commented, "Ella hears a book read, and she learns it and reads it back to us." I think she especially likes the melody, since she reads them with exagerated intonation.

[Now, she's pushed her way on to my lap. When I said I was writing about her, she said, "I can't see myse'f. A little gi'l wif pon-y-tay-els?"]

Oh, and movie quotes. She started quoting lines from movies. Some favorites:

"I go, you 'tay, no follow" [from the Iron Giant]
"Sooo-saaan. Ooh, I 'cared myse'f." [Monsters vs. Aliens] This one is delivered with great drama and accuracy.

Long Nights, Dim Days

Since the temp went back above freezing a few weeks ago, it's been raining A LOT. We've gone out in a few pounding rain storms, but usually the rain is light and off and on. We played American football with some other staff members on Thanksgiving morning, and got completely soaked!

The clouds are very low, and the sun is even lower. It's hard to explain the dimness of the day, except to say it's like a lightbulb burned out in the sky. Ella cries when we go running in the woods in the afternoon, because it's too scary. It really is dark, even in the early afternoon.

The sun rises this week about 9:30... Right now, in fact, I can actually see a strip of orange sky at the horizon. It's pretty unusual to even see that strip of sky. I'm not sure what time it sets these days, but by 4:30 it's fairly dark. We walk home from soccer practice in the dark.

But I'm feeling more hopeful about surviving the winter emotionally. Somehow, with less than a month until the solstice, it feels like it should be dark. A few weeks ago, it felt hopeless. The pessimistic view is the 'It won't even be this light again for two months!'

Our big question is why our kids don't need more sleep! Seven a.m. they're up, every morning. (Though to us it still feels like midnight.) At night, the boys aren't going to sleep for about an hour after bedtime. We put up a brighter night-light so that they can read in bed, instead of getting up and complaining that they're not tired. Eric and I are trying to go to bed earlier, since it seems we need more than 8 hours of sleep.

School Days


We are amazed when we think of our prayers this summer for Danya’s school experience. We are so grateful for how positive it has been.

There's been no bullying, little teasing, increasingly positive relationships with the kids in the class. Good relationships with parents—especially two families. We have been blessed largely through our need for help. When Eric has been travelling, or I have an unexpected delay, we need help getting Danya to school or picking him up. Three different families have helped on different days. And other mothers and grandmothers are very friendly. I’m looking for culturally appropriate ways to get to know them better. One family is Sasha’s (who was at the desk with Danya the first day). On the fall vacation, he and his mother came over one evening to play. And yesterday, he declared that Danya was his best friend. (Maybe because Danya brought him a present for his birthday?) Another is Elya, (Eleanor) a girl with a brother, Eric (Ernest) in the second grade. Strange names for Russian kids—their mother is ethnically German, and the father is a sailor who will leave this week for a six month trip to South America. They live in our building, and walk past our entrance, so it’s not difficult for them to help.

Cultural Differences

Russian schools value beauty and perfection. The first graders learn cursive letters by practicing, and practicing, and practicing. Special-lined graph paper teaches them the ‘slant’, and they are expected to make the letters well! This contrasts with our experience in American kindergarten, where kids were pretty much encouraged to write any way they could, with pretty poor results. One day, Danya filled a sheet of paper with random math problems—addition and subtraction. When I asked if it was for homework, he said he wanted to show his teacher that he could do math well. “She says that if I don’t make my numbers well, that I can’t do math. But I wanted to show her that even if I don’t make the little curl on the ‘2’ or ‘5’ t hat I can still do math.” We talked a little about cultural differences, and a lot about the fact that his worth is based on her opinion of him. We see that he internalizes the Russian appreciation for beauty and quality, and want him to learn to work hard to do well… but also understand that he doesn’t have to be perfect.

Mushroom Poem

One place where Danya’s intelligence is apparent is his ability to memorize. And that is highly valued in Russian schools. A few weeks ago, he recited his mushroom poem for the fall festival. He and two other kids memorized the same ‘Opyatka’ poem, and presented it together at an assembly. (Tima and Ella recite parts of it all the time, too!)

And now, each weekend, he is sent home with a poem to memorize—about eight lines, and not too easy by my standards. Even the first weekend, we only started it Sunday night. But after Eric talked him through it at dinner and breakfast the next morning, he had it down. A week later, he still knew it!

Imaginative Play

Tima:
We had a short break so that Ella could meet the other kids. Their names are Magazine and Dean, and Migsy. That was the first game, called Pass the Ball. The second game is called Hit Wall, because you get points for throwing the ball up on the wall. Now, I have 70 points, and Ella has three.
.. 90...92...94.

Ella!

...96..98..100!

Momma, I just 100. And I won that game!

Mom, you know how I got 100 in lots of shots? Because I got good ones. And remember what good ones are? You get more and more turns. And that's how I won the game.

Tima teaching Ella to read



The day he read his first 'real' book (thanks to Sonlight) Tima spontaneously decided to teach Ella to read.

Jumping Game

Frozen Beauty

I never finished this, and now it's hard to believe how beautiful and frozen it was a month ago.



Ice skating on the 'canals'. The woods are criss-crossed with small canals. And except in the winter, when the ground is frozen, most of the ground is a swamp.








I let them go on the very edge of the frozen lake. Others were braver, but we'll wait until later in the winter to try that!

One of my favorite parts of life in St Pete is the number of athletes. Perhaps it's a local effect from the big forest-park across the streeet. Even in rain, snow or darkness, there are many runners and cyclists. And in the winter, of course a lot of cross-country skiiers. It makes me smile every time!

Our building, from the forest. The near corner is entrance No 1. Our entrance, number 8, is at the far end, near the corner with the red brick building. We live on the 13th of 15 floors, with windows visible from here (facing the south).

A Good Saturday





Sun too bright!

After weeks where we rarely saw the sun, we had five straight days. Ella complained. Seriously. This photo was staged, but it was based on an actual experience.


Could a Saturday morning be better? The boys decided to make their original lego kits, which involved a lot of sorting. (I like sorting legos.) Ella emptied the closet, tried on all her summer and fall clothes, shoes and eventually starting playing with legos, too.

So, could a Saturday morning be better? Only if Eric were here to share it with!






I went back to find Tima's waterproof mitten. It took awhile. The kids waited paitently.... and pretended to be asleep.

(Note the incredibly nice elevator. We are truly blessed!)

This is on the way outside to play in the snow and ice skate. I'll put more photos in the next post! Check back soon!
















Affection and drama, again



We took the side rail off of Ella's bed. She has only fallen out once. But when I lay down with her, she pretends that she is afraid to fall.


"Oh, no, I gonna fall!" she cries. Then she rolls toward me, throws her arms around my neck and presses her cheek into my face. "I 'cared! Help me! Aaah!"

Then, a moment later, she rolls away, and repeats. I think she would do it 100 times if I didn't get tired of the game! Tima took this picture from the top bunk. Of course.



p.s. As I've been typing, Ella just said, "Ev-wy-body not talking to me! Hey, you have to talk to me!"



Weather

When we looked at the weather in Colorado (during a blizzard) the UV index was 1.

Here in St. Petersburg, the UV index is 0.

Tima's World

After we watched Danya's class performance in the Fall Holiday, Tima decided that the living room was 'his school'. So now, he imagines that the hall is outside, and he walks through it to school. His teacher is named miss Na-na-na. (Yesterday it was Miss Deborah.)

What do you do at school?
"Mostly I do writing, sometimes do gym."

What kind of writing?
"Letters and numbers." (He writes rows of various letters and numbers, which I guess is how he imitates Danya's Russian homework.)

"Everytime I get a new teacher, you have to come over to my school. So you can meet my teacher."

Today he drew a picture of a girl, and said that his teacher wanted him to draw his sister.

Another part of Tima's world right now is the guessing game.

"Momma, do you think I'm going to jump over or sideways around this puddle?"
"Do you think this apple piece has a crack in it or not?"
"Is Annakin going to use his lightsaber or his laser gun to fight General Grievous?"
and so on, more times a day. I've tried many times to say, "I don't know, Tima," especially when I'm in a hurry or busy writing a blog post. But I've learned the fastest way out of the situation is to make a guess, any guess. And if I want to influence the behavior, than reverse psychology usually works. He's much more likely to do what I don't choose. Then he can claim with a smug look, "I tricked ya'!"

"I tricked ya'" is another favorited phrase... usually when he got himself dressed, or made his bed, or something that he usually claims he can't do!

Waves of Irritating Sickness

We are finishing our eigth week of somebody being sick. Nothing serious, no flu of any kind, thankfully. But runny noses, coughs, sore throats, sinus infections, fevers... usually one kid at a time. As of today, Tima is well, Ella still has a runny nose but didn't wake up coughing last night at all, and Danya is 24 hours into a fever with headache and sore throat... Eric and I are determined not to get the latest infection.

I found a beautiful depiction of viral infection on NPR. See the video:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=114075029

In my head, there are about five great blogposts... and someday maybe I'll have the time and energy to write them down :)

Running Commentary from the Drama Queen



"You typing on yo-wa pew-ter?" [Are you typing on your computer?] In roomtime, she likes to type on her 'pewter' --an old keyboard.


"Mama!! Pink my fav-wit color!" (Said whenever she sees anything pink... and then she lists about six colors as her 'favorites')


"Ach-ly... I do want do it. [Actually] She likes to change her mind many times a day. About anything and everything.


"Look, Mommy, something funny!"


"Hmmm, let me see..." (She says this while putting one finger to her lips, as she 'thinks' about it.)

"I way mad to Tima" ('way' means 'very')

"I not can say that." (Said whenever she is challenged to repeat anything in Russian.)


"Pa-cee-ba" (Russian, for thank you)


"Pa-ka" (Russian, for 'goodbye')





Overall, Ella is talking almost always in full sentences, and has a lot to say. Her thoughts are expressed as they come, with no censorship (except by interrupting herself!) She continues to be very dramatic. One day I watched her in front of a mirror, placing her arms on a stool. She said with great exaggeration, "My arm... so... tired." At bedtime, she loves to say with great emphasis, in a voice that sounds truly tragic, "Good-bye Daddy."



And my favorite is that she loves to pretend to be asleep, or dead. At indoor playgrounds, she lies flat on her back, arms spread wide, and closes her eyes. I don't mind, as long as the other moms don't get worried and start checking on her!



Recycling in Russia


Can you believe it!!! It's not technically our trash dumpster, but it's actually closer than ours. And next to the dumpster is a yellow bin for mixed containers, and a blue bin for paper products. Of course, half of the contents seem to be trash. I pity the people who have to sort it. But I like it all the same!

Full Disclosure

Just to be transparent- the day after I wrote how much Tima loved school, he declared that he hated it.

He gets frustrated by any writing that is not in his handwriting book. So when the language arts curriculum calls for him to practice his name, address or phone number, he falls apart. And then has a pretty negative attitude for the rest of the time. So, we've been doing those orally, which is better anyway since he needs to know them in Russian.

Tima loves school!

"Pleeeease, Mom, can we please do school?"



Two days the first week, I had meetings in the morning. I wasn't worried about skipping homeschool with Tima. But when I got home, the begging was incessant. So I finally agreed to do school with him. What a pleasure! He loves every subject, every book, and excels at the simple tasks he's doing.



Tima's 'reading' program right now involves learning a new letter sound each week, and lots of exercises with words that start with that sound. We do some creative story-telling activities and name-writing. He has surprised me with his knowledge of the letters--in the spring, he wouldn't admit he knew them all! And he seems very able to hear the sounds, identify which words start with the sounds, etc.



Handwriting is his favorite subject right now. Thank you, Handwriting Without Tears! We're doing a new capital letter each day. I bought the whole package, including the big wood pieces and slate, and though it seems too repetitive, we have the time, so we do each step. This week, he asked Eric to spell out a title for a picture, and surprised Eric with how well formed his letters and numbers are. Amazing how a little practice makes a difference.



Math is still about shapes, identifying 'first' and 'last', counting and learning to write numbers. The workbook (Horizons) is engaging and varied... and so far very simple! On lesson 22, we just started learning 1+1=2...

After about 40 mnutes of those activities, we're done! After doing two hours the last few years with Danya, I don't quite know what to do with the extra time. I feel a little empty without the read-alouds that I've done in the past. But rather than following a program, I let each Ella and Tima choose a book for me to read. Some days I also pick one of the books like the Children's Encyclopedia. And then we play!



Tima has also been doing much more drawing and painting than he used to. His usual pictures are of himself, Danya, Nick and Nate, each with a lightsaber drawn, on bikes or rollerblades, fighting General Grievous. One day, he drew a "Titanic" and wanted me to draw him standing on the iceberg, pushing the ship away.

The Affection Sponge

Ella is insatiable for affection. She can't get enough of being hugged, held, kissed. I spent a lot of Saturday resting because of a cold, and Ella crawled in bed to just snuggle...and stayed for 20 minutes, sucking on her burpie.

Right now, she loves the Corduroy books, and I read them multiple times a day. Near the end of "A Pocket for Corduroy" the little girl holds her bear tight. When she's sitting in my lap, Ella likes me to squeeze her tight in my arms ... and then nuzzle noses like Lisa does at the end.

After the first week of school...


After the first full day of school, Danya greeted me with, "Why do I have to go to school. I don't want to." Oh, no, what happened?


It turned out that he didn't enjoy the classes mostly because the kids are loud and don't listen to the teacher. So then the teacher yells at them. Not a great dynamic. I'm not too concerned, largely because we're not depending on Russian school for long-term academics. He is now sitting in the front row, which will help, I think.


As far as the social dynamics, it's not great, but not bad. When he tried to talk to a few kids the first day at snack time, two didn't answer, one told him to go away, and one answered a question. The boy he often lines up with is Sasha, who he sat next to the first day (see above). Sasha seems to be friendly and sweet.

Every day they have snack time, actually it's breakfast ... the selections have included porridge, cabbage, noodles... and at that time he talks with other kids. They haven't had recess, instead they have breaks in their wide hallway. One day they went outside to draw with sidewalk chalk, and worked in teams to draw houses. That is one the few times they have worked together.

The academic work is quite different than in the States. It is very teacher-directed and not play-oriented. He has a workbook for each subject. For writing, the focus is on tracing lines, shapes and pictures in his workbook, according to the teacher's instructions. In reading, they are learning the alphabet and a lot of vocabulary like the seasons and holidays. There are no letters in the reading book until the 34th page. And in math, there is a focus on shapes, grouping objects according to different criteria, and also on patterns. Patterns-that's the one similarity to what he experienced in American kindergarten.


First Day of (Russian) School!


The music summons all the kids to school. As we exited our building, we saw many parents and their children, all dressed in dark green blazers, and weighed down with new backpacks, and huge bouquets of flowers. Even on the ride down our elevator, we stopped on the 9th floor for another family with a first year student. We didn't have to ask, because they all have sashes pinned to their blazers; “First Year Pupil” they proclaim in blue or pink. They are surrounded by parents, grandparents and a few little siblings. Danya had his parents and ‘Auntie Lena’ who asked Danya for the privilege of attending.
For us, the first day of school in Russia was a very cross-cultural experience! It’s a true holiday. Danya received gifts from Lena, our babysitter (Alla), and his teacher, and even a card from the director of the school. The children line up outside of the school with their teachers, and then stand there... for a long time. Our photos show mostly the large bouquets of flowers that each student brings for his or her teacher. There are speeches by the school director, and the leader of our region of the city. The memory of the 65th anniversary of Victory in Europe was invoked. And across the country, the first day of school the year was dedicated to Alexander Nevsky, who is a military hero from the 13th centurey. The celebration is especially about the first and eleventh year students. A group of each recites poetry. A bunch of balloons are cut by the first grade teachers, to soar to the heights of knowledge—though a few got caught in the tree.

Then the 11th years take the 1st years by hand and lead them into the school. Parents are allowed to follow and we lined the classroom walls. The students entered one by one, to take their places at their desks. With the backpacks and flowers, it was no easy task.






Then the teacher, Irina Valentinovna, welcomes them. She read the rules in verse. One of the first rules was to sit up straight and cross your arms on the desk. All the kids sat up straight and put their arms on their desks—except Danya. Lena leaned over to whisper to him what to do. Then the teacher started telling riddles, for the kids to practice raising their hands, and standing up to give their answers. I understood about half of them; and started to wonder what we were thinking to send our child here?
But the teacher then started giving specific instructions—take out your pencil bag, get your blue pen, write your name in the yellow stripe on the picture of the train wagon on your desk. Danya did great, only stumbling when she asked them to write two other words that they knew. He only knows how to write his name in Russian! We whispered, “Write Tima and Ella”. And he wrote Tima with only one letter backward. It was encouraging to watch the other kids write letters and numbers. It’s obvious that Danya has practiced a lot more than many of them. And though he’s way behind on comprehension, his academic skills are more like a 2nd than 1st grader (no surprise, as we just started 2nd grade in ‘American homeschool’).

(I'm so glad we have a few years before our daughter starts school, to learn to do these braids and traditional bows.)


Danya's favorite part of the day? Receiving gifts, and writing his name.
His least favorite? I don’t think he ever answered that question.

Tomorrow is school for real--Reading, Writing, Math and ‘Trud’… which means labor or work… I guess I’ll learn what it means in this context!

The part I’m most nervous about is interaction with other kids. Danya is worried they’ll make fun of him; I’m worried he’ll get beat up! So we’ll also learn tomorrow what kind of recess schedule, etc, he has. With four lessons in three hours, I’m not sure what kinds of breaks they get. Though we are paying 30 cents a day for some kind of snack… so we’ll have to see!
The teachers and administrators are so far very pleasant. When we passed in the stairwell, Lena watched the assistant principal greeting Eric and pouring out her congratulations and wishes for the year. I think she (Lena) was pleasantly surprised by the warmth of the interaction. Eric’s been working to get to know this woman and Danya’s teacher and it seems it’s really paying off. We also met the gym and music teachers and they were very friendly. Although the music teacher said her class was about ‘Listening to serious music and learning the composers.’ Hmmm.

There’s the report from the First of September. Happy Knowledge Day!

Tima's first day of kindergarten





Tima was very excited for his first day of school!



We started off with reading--the letter 'F'-- and handwriting, and math. (Actually, we've been doing math for a week or so because Tima wore me down with his begging! His math book starts with 'Find the green square' type of questions, so it's been fun practice.) I was happy we finished everything in about an hour.



Ella fared well in 'roomtime' but only because Danya was in there. It will be harder once he starts Russian school tomorrow. She is scared of the 'neighbors' who are still occasionally remodeling. I know she would happily draw for awhile, but I'd really like to give Tima my full attention.










Bundy Family Photo


This summer we spent a delightful three days in Glenwood Springs. Here's one moment captured.

Ella's expressions

“Thank you momma, opening my lollipop.”
So many unsolicitated expressions of thanks. Warms my heart.
I worried it burn me.
Do two-year-olds usually talk about worrying?
I AM hungry.
She likes to emphasize this new grammar.
I AM do it.
She likes to emphasize, even incorrectly.
I do it MYSELF!
And she usually can, whether un/dressing or pushing the stroller.
Please you hold me…….your other hand here.
She’s very affectionate, and specific in her desires!

I need you, Momma.
Irresistible, but the effect decrease with use, especially at bedtime!

First Days Back

I’m enjoying a long morning with the kids still asleep. The ongoing jet-lag question, “Should I wake them?” All told, last night –the fifth- was the best yet. Each child woke only once, and briefly. Yesterday was the first day I didn’t take a nap, and I barely made it to 9:00. So I awoke at 6 this morning, very refreshed!

We have no internet yet, so I am trying to focus on what to do on the computer in order to download later. I must say, the Huddlestons are amazing! Every day, we go to their flat to get our email… and shower! That’s right, we were welcomed back to Russia with three weeks of no hot water. But our teammates have an electric water heater, so we can get hot showers there. Although we’ve realized how our years in Russia have taught us how to heat water on the stove pretty well. At this point, I’m also glad for our dishwasher, which heats it’s own water. That takes a little of the heating-water burden off of my shoulders.

We finally have everything unpacked, and today we get to pack again! We leave on Thursday for 10 days at two conferences just outside of St Pete. I’m really enjoying the fact that it’s close—we’ll ride there in a bus instead of a plane, which makes the trip so much easier… and it’s fun to be able to help those flying in with things like playpens and diapers!

The kids are adjusting well to being back in Russia. Danya has been a real trooper with the getting-ready-for-school tasks. After rising at 4am the first morning, he then spent half the day with Eric, going to the medical clinic, and then the tailor. Eric has truly been playing the hero. At the local clinic, the doctor advised him to take Danya to a private clinic instead of jumping through all the complicated hoops at the public one. So Eric made the calls, and scheduled an appointment for the next morning. Danya prayed beforehand that nothing would hurt, and Eric cringed, because he knew that was impossible. Danya had to have a blood test, and another very uncomfortable swab. But at this private clinic the doctor was kind, and he got a toy as a gift. The blood test was a painless finger prick, and the swab was replaced with a piece of scotch tape. We were all amazed, and very grateful! We still need to take in some body-function samples, but his medical certificate should be ready by the time we return from the conference.

After the clinic, Eric drug Danya to the tailor to measure for his uniform. He came home with black trousers, and a green blazer. The white shirt and vest are out of stock, but we should be able to pick them up before school starts. We'll need to buy his sports clothes, and some black shoes, but other than that, we're all set! I am so amazed, since I assumed I would start the medical and uniform processes this past Monday. I've be free to do some of the follow up things with the clinic, but won't be burdened with doing it all myself!

Tima has had the most emotional adjustment, complete with a lot of nighttime wailing, begging to sleep in our bed. I reintroduced his ‘burpie’ which he stopped using this summer. When he first saw it, it made him cry harder, I guess out of joy! But it seems to help him a little go to sleep! But, last night he didn't cry at all.

The first day, Tima commented at the playground, "That boy speaks Russian!" He really sounded surprised. When he saw the TV in our living room, he exclaimed, "This is where we watch Lazy Town!" (We haven't been able to find it, and don't know how to find a tv schedule.

Ella walks around and as she discovers things, says, "This pink ____ for me?"
Insert -boots, -backpack, -doll, -potty.
Since she wasn't aware of colors when we left, now it's incredible for her to find all these pink toys and clothes. She is in accessory heaven, with her cowboy boots, slippers, and the hats and scarves and mittens in her drawer. It was a mistake to not store her cold-weather clothes, as she's always begging to wear them outside.

Every time Ella goes to the bathroom, she asks, “We in Russia, Momma?” It’s possible she thinks that room is ‘Russia.’ (When he was 3, Tima thought that the church building we first stayed in was ‘Ukraine’.) But I think it’s the natural result of my telling her all summer that she had a pink potty in Russia.

Our former babysitter, Renata, has babysat each morning this week. She is staying with us since Eric left. The kids were so excited to see her, although Ella clung to me for the first 30 minutes. But when it was time for me to go, there were no tears! The kids love the playgrounds just outside our building, and throughout the neighborhood. I couldn’t convince them to cross the big road to the woods, but Renata took them wading in the pond there. We went to a bigger lake with the Huddlestons yesterday evening. It’s about 30 minutes walk away, with a big beach and a sign that says, No Swimming! We decided to follow the cultural rules (all the people in the water) instead of the written ones… IT was pretty dirty, so we took a bath at home.

I enjoyed walking in the woods the other day, and had a little cry. (I seem to express my grief only when walking surrounded by Colorado grasslands or Russian forests). I found raspberries and a tiny snail. The paths were full of people walking, cycling, and near the lake, sunbathing. I wish I could have photographed the two young men playing badminton, wearing jeans and no shirts. Classic.

Favorite Memories of the Summer



When I look back on the summer, the highlight had to be our extended-family trip to Glenwood Springs. My parents generously brought my sister and her family, and us, for a weekend at the hot springs pool in the mountains. Though they had desires to do some hiking and other activities, the kids were so in love with the pool that we ended up going every day.

There’s something deeply satisfying to watching my kids play where I played as a child. And watching my husband give dolphin rides, and launch the kids to flip, like my dad used to do for me.

Danya learned to jump off the diving board. And within an hour, he was flipping! For about 8 years, I’ve pretty much stopped diving, because it was a solitary activity, meaning that Eric would have to be with the kids. What fun to now dive together with my son! Hope for the years to come…


Adi relaxing with Dani.



Dave with Mae

Last Week

One last week in Colorado.

We're spending three days with my parents, then three with Eric's. And suddenly, the reality of our departure to Russia is hitting home. In happy and sad ways...

Listening to my sister tell about her garden, I'm so sad that we can't share in the harvest. I'm trying to soak up the sunshine, relish in the green grass, and capture the impossible beauty of the Colorado sky. When I watch my parents with my kids, I'm so sad that they won't see each other for over a year. Playing with my nieces, I am overwhelmed at the pain of separation. When we see them next, they'll probably be three!

But I've been also looking forward to unpacking for good. We've moved 8 times through this summer, and it's getting really old. And I'm looking forward to using the kids' toy shelves, bunk beds, and a even a real bed for Ella! She's been on a mattress on the floor almost everywhere we've stayed. Though I'll miss the huge American washers and dryers, there's something to the rhythm of doing our laundry at home.

The boys can't wait to get back to Russia. They just spent their allowance, and bought mostly Star Wars toys. And they are upset we won't be able to play with Nate and Nick for another week. I'm glad they're not upset about leaving, but am trying to help them appreciate the things we enjoy here alone.

We fly to St. Petersburg on August 5th, arriving the 6th. After a week at home, we will go just outside of the city for a few weeks of staff conferences and theological classes. So, I'm trying not to get too concerned with how that's going to feel!

The Girly Girl

Ella has really developed her girliness in the last few months.

When we arrived in May, she didn't even know her colors. Now she tells me every day, "My fav-rit color pink.... I like pink... I like pu-pul, I like geen." We have tears every day she doesn't get to wear a dress. And among the growing number of dresses, she has her favorites--mostly the pink ones! In fact, she won't wear my favorite, which is a beautiful deep blue covered in tiny stars.

When she's in a dress, she tells me, "I look p'etty!" And sometimes she follows by saying, "Danya Tima not look petty." At times, she walks around singing, "I look pet-ty, I look petty."

Today, she was decked out in her pink-flowered swimsuit, pink polka-dot dress, and even pink hairbands. I must be honest, most of the pink items are purchased by Eric. I'm still learning to like the color. But my little girl is teaching me to embrace my feminity!

4th of July

Who knew I could decide spontaneously to take three children out to see fireworks, at 9pm, in their pajamas?

Who knew we could find the public display by just weaving around the roads till we saw a bunch of parked cars?

Who knew the kids would be fussy in the car, and I would lead us along the dark path to sit outside with the crowd ... still in our pajamas?

Who knew that momma's lap would just be too small for two squirmy children who want to stretch out and cuddle simultaneously?

Who knew the little girl wouldn't be scared of the booming noise?

Everybody knew the seven-year-old would love every minute!

Who knew a five-year-old could fall asleep while watching fireworks?

Who knew I could carry the two-year-old while pushing the five-year-old in the stroller?

Who knew that there would be a lot of crying when she had to walk up the stairs because her brother was completely asleep?

Who knew that it would be worth it anyway?

Tima is FIVE!!


For Tima's fifth birthday, we had a small gathering... since three of the families we would have invited are out of town, I was worried it would be too small. But we ended up with 11 kids and 12 adults! Pictured from left to right are Tony (arm) and Addie Dormish, Danya and Tima, Clyde and Tess Kertzer.

Tima was absolutely hyper from receiving so many gifts. Since I'm the person who remembers that it's appropriate to bring gifts to birthday parties once I'm there, I was surprised that everyone brought him something! And it's a good thing his big brother is well-practiced in assemblying toys. Bionicles, Legos, Transformers... we have enough spatial manipulation to make engineers proud. Maybe this is why it's such a male-dominated field!

Just a note to say that Tima started acting like a five-year-old a few months ago. He has become very helpful, especially with Ella. Often, if she's upset, he'll hug her, or run and get the object she's throwing a tantrum over. He's started to really be interested in how things work, and imagining solutions to problems (the solutions are usually quite fantastic). It's official, too, that he knows all of his letters, though N and Y are still sticky.

Tomorrow we're going to participate in a kids' fun-run in Erie, CO. At bedtime, Tima said that he would win because, "I'm going to use my super powers and you won't even be able to see my legs!"

From the Black Hole

In case you wondered, we have been swallowed up in a black hole. This transmission is reaching you with the greatest effort!

To catch up: In May, we traveled separately back to Colorado. The kids and I flew early, and every thing went as good as could be expected... for traveling alone with three kids... and the international flight being canceled! Seriously, I just had to focus on not getting anxious, since everything looked terrible, but worked out just fine. We arrived in Colorado one hour later (and the flight time was two hours shorter!) than planned. We went through the usual jet-lag stage, which is never fun. But my parents really helped and I got a two-hour nap each day! Eric arrived 10 days later, and experienced no jet lag at all. We spent wonderful time with both of our sets of parents, my sister and her family, and friends. After about 5 weeks of new-week-new-home living, we were very ready to settle into Dani and Daves' home. They are graciously letting us stay for a month, and it felt good to unpack! Although we also are experiencing the burden and stress of how much space our family of five takes up. But we are so thankful that God has provided a comfortable place to live through them, and also a wonderful car.

Now, we are in a pretty busy rhythm. Hence, the black hole of email communication! We are spending time in swimming lessons, doctors and dentist appointments, spending time with dear friends and family, keeping up with our responsibilities with the Russian campus ministry, and, oh, trying to raise support!

It is a challenge to trust God to provide for our needs, but we know that He will enable us to do that, to which He has called us. And, we are also learning how we can live on less like so many people in this economic downturn.

We have only the month of June in the Boulder area, as July will see a trip to Texas, Colorado Springs, and then two weeks of conferences. We leave for Russia on August 5th in time to go to our conferences there! How can two months be so short?

Overall, we are learning to be grateful for what we have. (I've had to apply this phrase to myself after repeating it hundreds of times to my kids!) And that applies to time, as well. We look forward to spending as much time as possible with our friends and family here, and be grateful that God has given us so many communities around the world which are dear to our hearts.

I eat dog

When leaving our friends' house last night, a teenage boy told our kids a joke:

"I saw a skunk that was dead on the road. I won it. ... You say, "I two it."
Danya replied, "I two it.'
"I three it."
"I four it."
"I five it."
"I six it."
"I seven it."
"I eight it."
"You ate the skunk!"
Our kids thought it was hilarious. And all the way home, they attempted to recreate the joke. But, not content to just repeat it, they tried to make up new endings. So we had all kinds of dog 'jokes' with punch lines like, "I elves it."

Then Ella spoke up, "My turn."
And she told her first joke. "I eat dog."

Fun with Cousins

Aunt Dani and Tima, trying to fly a kite without wind.

My parents beautiful yard, complete with sandbox and improvised climbing device!

My sister, Dani, getting the three cousins ready for the pool.

Ella, Mae, and Adi, having more fun than it looks like!

Colorado and family

The kids and I are loving being surrounded by family, soaking in the Colorado sunshine, and enjoying the perks of life in the States--like rec centers, bikes and town fairs. Last night Dani and Dave hosted their annual bbq, and I got to see many old friends, plus my grandmother and aunt and uncle. Today we went to my parents' church in Erie, and relished the small town feel of the community, plus the beauty of the old steepled building.

Last night, everyone slept six hours straight for the first time. Ella is having a hard time going to sleep unless I stay with her, and she wakes up crying most of the time. (That's been happening since all the construction noise in our St Pete apartment, and all the new places aren't helping!) But the last two days, she's fallen asleep at naptime with my mother there instead of me. So I'm hopeful!

Eric really enjoyed his time in Budapest with our new local leaders. Now he has two more days in Moscow, then a day of travel. We'll see him Wednesday night! 

On Friday, we'll go to Eric's parents for a few days, so if you're local and want to see us this week, give me a call! If you don't know the number, just comment on this or email me: 
kara.coe@promail.ru

The Adventure Continues

Here we are, in the middle of four travel days in four weeks. Danya just said he's excited to 'be' in Moscow but doesn't want to have to travel there. This is the third Sunday or Monday when we're travelling. And next Monday, we'll have another flight...this time to Colorado!

Last night we were actually packed, apartment cleaned and had time to watch an episode of LOST. In a few hours, we’ll fly to Moscow and enjoy a week of Local Leader Conference and STINT debrief. And then, May 11th, I’ll fly alone with all three kids to Colorado. Eric will catch up to us on May 20th. So, the adventure begins… or rather, continues! It’s been a crazy week since we returned from Irkutsk.

Could I ask for you to pray for us and our kids’ health? Ella got sick in Irkutsk, 10 days ago, and is just now getting better. She is still clingy and demanding, especially if I’m around. It’s like having a colicky-newborn again… (or a dairy-reacting one-year-old again—maybe she just needs to get really fussy once a year). I am a little anxious about flying alone, 10 hours to Wash D.C. and then three more to Colorado. Please pray for no delayed flights, good behavior for the kids, strength for me, and health for all!

For those in the Denver/Boulder area, please contact me if you'd like to get together. I'll be staying in Erie with my parents. Reply here or email! I'm excited to see you!

Irkutsk

I'm not going to even mention how disappointed I am that I haven't been able to write in so long... oh, whoops!

We returned from our five days in Irkutsk on the 26th. It's hard to summarize our time there, but it was definitely saturated. From morning to night, we enjoyed time together with Homoon, YoungJa, Ju-eun, Ju-hui and Ju-an. And everyday we also saw other friends and neighbors. I wish I had the time and energy to tell you all the emotions. At first, I really felt I was in shock, like there were so many things I thought I would feel, but I was just numb. The last day, I took a run in the woods, and felt that was the best thing I could have done to process, to grieve, to enjoy the place we lived for years. It felt like the woods was a person with whom I had spent many hours, watched each other change through the years. I was so grateful that so little had changed since I left.

I put our photos on Facebook, but can't seem to receive the email to myself with the address for non-Facebook users. Hopefully next time!

So, now we're in the vortex of laundry from the last trip and packing for the next. In three days we fly to Moscow for a week-long conference, and then straight onto Colorado for the summer. Trying to wash and store away all the winter coats and wash and pack all the summer clothes at the same time is proving to be a challenge!

Ella Posing







With just over two weeks at home until our departure from St Pete for the summer, I've realized we better wash the summer clothes. It's hard to imagine, since we just cracked 40F today...and it felt freezing, with a cold wind and hidden sun.
Ella wants to put on every item of clothes that she sees, sometimes all at once! She especially loves hats, shoes and dresses. She wanted to put on a wet dress that I was hanging on the line, and I convinced her to accept this shirt instead. And then she posed in front of the mirror. I grabbed the camera halfway through, and love the images!
Dad, I think your photos last summer weren't accidental--I think she was posing even then!